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		<title>TheAuthorOfMarriage.com &#8211; 50 Best Blogs for Marriage Advice</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Aug 2010 14:40:06 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>James R. Price</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>TheAuthorOfMarriage.com makes the list of &#8220;50 Best Blogs for Marriage Advice&#8221;</p>
<p>Hi James, We just posted an article, “50 Best Blogs for Marriage Advice”</p>
<p>( http://www.mastersincounseling.com/50-best-blogs-for-marriage-advice ). I thought I&#8217;d bring it to your attention in case you think your readers would find it interesting. I am happy to let you know that your site has been [...]]]></description>
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<p>Hi James, We just posted an article, “50 Best Blogs for Marriage Advice”</p>
<p>( <a href="http://www.mastersincounseling.com/50-best-blogs-for-marriage-advice " target="_blank">http://www.mastersincounseling.com/50-best-blogs-for-marriage-advice </a>). I thought I&#8217;d bring it to your attention in case you think your readers would find it interesting. I am happy to let you know that your site has been included in this list. Either way, thanks for your time!</p>
<p>Cheers,</p>
<p>Abby Nelson</p>
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		<title>The Marriage Guarantee by James Price (Paperback): booksamillion.com</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Jul 2010 20:55:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>James R. Price</dc:creator>
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		<title>A Word From a Friend</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Jul 2010 11:16:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>James R. Price</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>A good friend of mine recently wrote the following after reading my book &#8220;The Marriage Guarantee&#8221;</p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A good friend of mine recently wrote the following after reading my book &#8220;The Marriage Guarantee&#8221;</p>
<div><span style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS',Verdana,Helvetica,sans-serif; color: #003366; font-size: x-small;"><span style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS',Verdana,Helvetica,sans-serif; color: #003366; font-size: x-small;"><span style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS',Verdana,Helvetica,sans-serif; color: #003366; font-size: medium;">Guarantee</span></span></span></div>
<p><span style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS',Verdana,Helvetica,sans-serif; color: #003366; font-size: x-small;"> <span style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS',Verdana,Helvetica,sans-serif; color: #003366; font-size: small;">Guarantee means an assurance for the fulfillment of a condition. We usually associate a guarantee with the purchase of a car. But what happens to the guarantee on your car if the company goes bankrupt? We get guarantees from insurance companies. But what happens if the insurance company goes bankrupt? We get guarantees from the government. Is it possible the government can&#8217;t deliver on its guarantee?</span></span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS',Verdana,Helvetica,sans-serif; color: #003366; font-size: x-small;"><span style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS',Verdana,Helvetica,sans-serif; color: #003366; font-size: small;"> God has given you a guarantee. Can you trust God&#8217;s guarantee? There is no greater assurance than God&#8217;s guarantee?</span></span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS',Verdana,Helvetica,sans-serif; color: #003366; font-size: x-small;"><span style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS',Verdana,Helvetica,sans-serif; color: #003366; font-size: small;"> Here is a guarantee God has given you: <strong>Love never fails</strong>. </span></span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS',Verdana,Helvetica,sans-serif; color: #003366; font-size: x-small;"><span style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS',Verdana,Helvetica,sans-serif; color: #003366; font-size: small;"> Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self- seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. <strong>Love never fails</strong>. 1 Corinthians 13:4-8</span></span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS',Verdana,Helvetica,sans-serif; color: #003366; font-size: x-small;"><span style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS',Verdana,Helvetica,sans-serif; color: #003366; font-size: small;"> Not guaranteed</span></span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS',Verdana,Helvetica,sans-serif; color: #003366; font-size: x-small;"><span style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS',Verdana,Helvetica,sans-serif; color: #003366; font-size: small;"> Stop looking for love from others and the world. This love will always fail you. <strong>God is the one who guarantees love never fails</strong>. Stop looking for others to love you. Your love comes from the author and creator of ALL. </span></span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS',Verdana,Helvetica,sans-serif; color: #003366; font-size: x-small;"><span style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS',Verdana,Helvetica,sans-serif; color: #003366; font-size: small;"> God&#8217;s redemptive work is always aimed toward you. Take your focus off other people and focus on God&#8217;s guarantee to you. Love never fails. God&#8217;s love for you will never fail. HE has redeemed you. If you will love yourself, then you can love your neighbor. When God&#8217;s guarantee of love is in you, you are in a position to love others. Without the love and forgiveness of Christ in you, you cannot give love away.</span></span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS',Verdana,Helvetica,sans-serif; color: #003366; font-size: x-small;"><span style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS',Verdana,Helvetica,sans-serif; color: #003366; font-size: small;"> When you seek first the Kingdom of God and HIS righteousness, all these things will be added unto you. When you love the Lord God with all your heart, mind, soul, and strength, then you can love others as Christ has loved you. </span></span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS',Verdana,Helvetica,sans-serif; color: #003366; font-size: x-small;"><span style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS',Verdana,Helvetica,sans-serif; color: #003366; font-size: small;"> God&#8217;s love will never fail. His love is an unconditional love for all. Stop asking for others to love. You go love. Receive God&#8217;s guarantee of love never failing. Live a life of love from a heart filled with forgiveness toward others as God did for you and sent HIS son to die for you.</span> </span></p>
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		<title>An Earthquake Close to Home</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Mar 2010 16:09:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>James R. Price</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>In recent earthquakes in Haiti and Chile many have responded to the disasters. I was one of almost 100 people from our church and partnering organization ACTS World Relief. I hope to return soon to help the people there to rebuild there homes and provide much needed spiritual and emotional care.</p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><!-- 		@page { margin: 0.79in } 		P { margin-bottom: 0.08in } -->In recent earthquakes in Haiti and Chile many have responded to the disasters. I was one of almost 100 people from our church and partnering organization ACTS World Relief. I hope to return soon to help the people there to rebuild there homes and provide much needed spiritual and emotional care.</p>
<p>But this entry in my blog is not about the quakes on the other side of the world. It is about the quakes that have been occurring much closer to home. Some homes have been destroyed and others are crumbling. Unfortunately these quakes are not getting much attention, these quakes are only felt by those whose marriages are falling apart. In most cases even their neighbors are unaware of the damage.</p>
<p>While in Haiti, I worked along side of doctors and nurses who were performing life saving surgery&#8217;s. We worked in a hospital that had survived the quakes, but in the back of everyone&#8217;s mind was the thought of another quake. Would we be safe? Was the foundation of the hospital solid? Or did it have cracks? Occasionally we would feel the after shocks that caused most of us to evaluate our situation. At one point after hearing the advice of a structural engineer, we actually came to the conclusion “If we do not protect ourselves first then we may not be able to go on saving lives.”</p>
<p>Have you been ignoring the quakes in your marriage? Is your foundation solid? Are you protecting your family?</p>
<p>You may need the help of the structural engineer to help you to get a good understanding of how solid your foundation is. Repairs may need to be performed before you can go on.</p>
<p>Make sure you can go on saving the lives of your spouse, children, friends and family. Seek God first, He is the structural engineer of your marriage. He has a plan. I encourage you to also seek out the help of someone who can guide you through the list of precautions and foundational repair options.</p>
<p>I would love the opportunity to help you or friends of yours in this process. I am a certified life coach and a pastoral care counselor.</p>
<p>Please Pray for all the marriages that are going through disaster&#8217;s of some kind.</p>
<p><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Pray that they will hear the voice of God through the rubble.</span></strong></p>
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<p>If you would like to help sponsor me on my next trip to Haiti you can do that on <a href="http://www.TheAuthorOfMarriage.com/sponsor-me"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>Sponsor Me</strong></span></a> page</p>
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		<title>Six Minutes in Haiti</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 31 Jan 2010 02:44:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>James R. Price</dc:creator>
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<p><a href="http://vimeo.com/9052888">Six Minutes in Haiti</a> from <a href="http://vimeo.com/northlandchurch">Northland Church</a> on <a href="http://vimeo.com">Vimeo</a>.</p>
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		<title>Waiting on the Lord (Haiti Trip)</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 19 Jan 2010 14:29:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>James R. Price</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Out of the 98 people from ACTS, Northland and Won-g, 32 were able to go yesterday, the rest of us slept in the hanger last night and are hopeful of the original planes returning for us, or provision of other planes. We are all doing well and practicing our flexibility and trusting that God&#8217;s plan [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><!-- 		@page { margin: 0.79in } 		P { margin-bottom: 0.08in } 		H2 { margin-bottom: 0.08in } -->Out of the 98 people from ACTS, Northland and Won-g, 32 were able to go yesterday, the rest of us slept in the hanger last night and are hopeful of the original planes returning for us, or provision of other planes. We are all doing well and practicing our flexibility and trusting that God&#8217;s plan is perfect.</p>
<p>I have been reading facebook posts from a friend of mine who is already there in Haiti filming with NBC. One of the pictures of a pile of rubble has a caption that there are more than 50 people trapped in this supermarket that had collapsed.</p>
<p>There are possibly as many as 50 survivors believed to be inside this collapsed supermarket. Rescue teams are working to get to them!</p>
<p>As I was reading my bible preparing our groups daily devotions, I read a verse in Isaiah that seemed to be an answer from God.</p>
<h2><a name="passage_heading1"></a><span style="font-size: small;">Isaiah 42:6-8a (New International Version)</span></h2>
<p><a name="en-NIV-18487"></a>6 &#8220;I, the LORD, have called you in righteousness;<br />
I will take hold of your hand.<br />
I will keep you and will make you<br />
to be a covenant for the people<br />
and a light for the Gentiles,</p>
<p><a name="en-NIV-18488"></a>7 to open eyes that are blind,<br />
<span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>to free captives from prison<br />
and to release from the dungeon those who sit in darkness. </strong></span></p>
<p><a name="en-NIV-18489"></a><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>8a &#8220;I am the LORD; that is my name! “</strong></span></p>
<p>We are confident that God will release them from the dungeon&#8217;s that have been created from the earthquake.</p>
<p>I then thought of a verse my Dad quoted on an old video presentation of their missionary work in Venezuela</p>
<h2><a name="passage_heading2"></a><span style="font-size: small;">Isaiah 41:17-18 (New International Version)</span></h2>
<p><a name="en-NIV-18469"></a>17 &#8220;The poor and needy search for water,<br />
but there is none;<br />
their tongues are parched with thirst.<br />
But I the LORD will answer them;<br />
I, the God of Israel, will not forsake them.</p>
<p><a name="en-NIV-18470"></a>18 I will make rivers flow on barren heights,<br />
and springs within the valleys.<br />
I will turn the desert into pools of water,<br />
and the parched ground into springs.</p>
<p>I see the rivers of clean water in front of me here in the hanger waiting to be shipped. There are pallets of bottled water ready to go along with clothes and food. God&#8217;s timing is perfect, He is doing this, the water will get there when it is needed and so will our team.</p>
<p>As I discussed this with John Tardonia who I am traveling with, He shared a verse he had come across.</p>
<h2><a name="passage_heading"></a><span style="font-size: small;">Isaiah 54:10 (New International Version)</span></h2>
<p><a name="en-NIV-18734"></a>10 Though the mountains be shaken<br />
and the hills be removed,<br />
yet my unfailing love for you will not be shaken<br />
nor my covenant of peace be removed,&#8221;<br />
says the LORD, who has compassion on you.</p>
<p>So clearly God is taking this time to prepare our hearts a little more before we go.</p>
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		<title>Going to Haiti</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 16 Jan 2010 13:30:42 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>James R. Price</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: left;">I will be leaving tomorrow for Haiti with The Pastoral Care Team of Northland A Church Distributed and a medical team, I dont know much more than that right now, but the following is a list of ways you can get involved that was sent out by our church.</p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: left;">I will be leaving tomorrow for Haiti with The Pastoral Care Team of Northland A Church Distributed and a medical team, I dont know much more than that right now, but the following is a list of ways you can get involved that was sent out by our church.</p>
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<h3>Five Ways to Get Involved</h3>
<p>The entire Northland community is praying for the people of Haiti in this dark hour. Together as a congregation, we are also finding the most appropriate ways to respond to this tragedy and provide assistance. Northland is partnering with others, for others, to help in the best ways possible. So in the weeks and months ahead, we will work with those who have experience in disaster response or have direct connections within the country of Haiti. There are several ways that you and your family can come alongside and help.</p>
<p>1. <strong>GIVE</strong> toward relief work in Haiti. Bring a special offering to worship or <a href="http://northlandchurch.us1.list-manage.com/track/click?u=fba085cc591fec0d71d835182&amp;id=77bc77fd2f&amp;e=42affd5bf5" target="_blank">GIVE ONLINE NOW</a>. (Select “Local/Global Missions” and write “Haiti” in the notes field.) All money will be sent directly to our partners, including <a title="New Missions" href="http://northlandchurch.us1.list-manage.com/track/click?u=fba085cc591fec0d71d835182&amp;id=e33ce4d262&amp;e=42affd5bf5" target="_blank">New Missions</a>, <a title="Kids Against Hunger" href="http://northlandchurch.us1.list-manage.com/track/click?u=fba085cc591fec0d71d835182&amp;id=4ed8a31de8&amp;e=42affd5bf5" target="_blank">Kids Against Hunger</a>, <a title="Islego Mission" href="http://northlandchurch.us1.list-manage.com/track/click?u=fba085cc591fec0d71d835182&amp;id=cbc86ea1fc&amp;e=42affd5bf5" target="_blank">Islego Mission</a>, and others.</p>
<p>2. <strong>DONATE </strong>needed supplies to the people of Haiti. <a title="Harvest Time International" href="http://northlandchurch.us1.list-manage.com/track/click?u=fba085cc591fec0d71d835182&amp;id=6fd44e3626&amp;e=42affd5bf5" target="_blank">Harvest Time International</a> will collect the following items at Northland at Longwood on Saturday, January 23 from 8 a.m. to 6 p.m.:</p>
<p>Blankets | Baby formula | Children’s diapers | Coolers | First-aid kits | Hygiene kits (soap, towels, etc.) | Medical supplies | Pedialyte | Powdered milk | Raisins | Rice | Rope | Tarps | Water-treatment tablets</p>
<p>3. <strong>SERVE</strong> with <a title="Harvest Time International" href="http://northlandchurch.us1.list-manage.com/track/click?u=fba085cc591fec0d71d835182&amp;id=60ce0fad06&amp;e=42affd5bf5" target="_blank">Harvest Time International</a>. Sort, package and organize donations. All ages are welcome. These efforts will take place over the next few months at Northland at Longwood: (CLICK ON THE DATES TO REGISTER): <a title="Saturday, January 30" href="http://northlandchurch.us1.list-manage.com/track/click?u=fba085cc591fec0d71d835182&amp;id=a47979d8f2&amp;e=42affd5bf5" target="_blank">Saturday, January 30</a>; <a title="Saturday, February 27" href="http://northlandchurch.us1.list-manage.com/track/click?u=fba085cc591fec0d71d835182&amp;id=d1304dff73&amp;e=42affd5bf5" target="_blank">Saturday, February 27</a>; and<a title=" Saturday, March 27" href="http://northlandchurch.us1.list-manage.com/track/click?u=fba085cc591fec0d71d835182&amp;id=010948e75e&amp;e=42affd5bf5" target="_blank"> Saturday, March 27</a> from 7:30 a.m. to 1 p.m.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Also, in partnership with <a title="Kids Against Hunger" href="http://northlandchurch.us1.list-manage.com/track/click?u=fba085cc591fec0d71d835182&amp;id=2a1f534f65&amp;e=42affd5bf5" target="_blank">Kids Against Hunger</a>, you can help package more than 100,000 meals that will be shipped directly to Haiti. Hundreds of volunteers are needed for this effort. The meals you pack will be put directly into the hands of hurting Haitians. There will be two opportunities to participate at Northland at Longwood (CLICK ON THE DATES TO REGISTER): <a title="Saturday, January 23" href="http://northlandchurch.us1.list-manage.com/track/click?u=fba085cc591fec0d71d835182&amp;id=fcb9a7a58b&amp;e=42affd5bf5" target="_blank">Saturday, January 23</a>; and <a title="Saturday, January 30" href="http://northlandchurch.us1.list-manage.com/track/click?u=fba085cc591fec0d71d835182&amp;id=23e9f9384c&amp;e=42affd5bf5" target="_blank">Saturday, January 30</a> from 9 a.m. to 1 p.m.</p>
<p>4. <strong>GO</strong> with a work team to Haiti. There will be opportunities through our partnerships with <a title="Islego Mission" href="http://northlandchurch.us1.list-manage.com/track/click?u=fba085cc591fec0d71d835182&amp;id=ac73d94f43&amp;e=42affd5bf5" target="_blank">Islego</a> and <a title="New Missions" href="http://northlandchurch.us1.list-manage.com/track/click?u=fba085cc591fec0d71d835182&amp;id=727f2cd19d&amp;e=42affd5bf5" target="_blank">New Missions</a>. These agencies are not yet prepared to send in teams, but they are starting to make plans. If you are interested in serving on a construction/clean-up crew in Haiti in the next few weeks or months, be sure your passport is current and your shots are up to date. More information will follow as we work with our partners.</p>
<p>5. <strong>PRAY</strong> for the people of Haiti and for God to direct each of us on how we can best respond to this disaster. We will offer an extended time of prayer after each service this weekend at all locations.</p>
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		<title>Do you have 2010 vision?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 07 Jan 2010 16:41:33 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>James R. Price</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Do you have 2010 vision? I am sure many of you are making New Years Resolutions or some form of goal setting trying to avoid making promises that you do not believe you can keep. Year after year we set goals and some are met and others are forgotten. It is in our nature, we [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Do you have 2010 vision? I am sure many of you are making New Years Resolutions or some form of goal setting trying to avoid making promises that you do not believe you can keep. Year after year we set goals and some are met and others are forgotten. It is in our nature, we want this year to better than last year, we need to grow, we need to move and we need change. It is definitely the way we are created. So do you have 2010 vision? </p>
<p>A person with 20/10 vision can read a letter at 20 feet that a person with normal vision would have to come up to 10 feet to read. </p>
<p>Having 20/10 vision means that we will see beyond the normal and with God&#8217;s help we can see the deeper purpose in what we do. Our purpose should not be more money, more success or more power. I am not saying that these pursuits are wrong, I am only saying that they should not be our purpose, they should be our reward. No matter what you do the joy will only come from the love of serving others. </p>
<p>Having 20/10 vision will also mean that you see things that others do not. Take your time in every situation and with every decision and ask God to guide you. He knows what you need and will provide. For example if you go to networking groups, your purpose should be to meet people that you can have a life changing impact on. </p>
<p>I just came from a meeting at my wife&#8217;s Financial Planning office. As we discussed goals for the year, the obvious ones included numbers, how many new clients, etc. In the financial planning field the measure of someones success is PC&#8217;s standing for Production Credits. My wife meets her goals every year even last year. She is always genuinely surprised. But after 16 years of being married to her I have never been surprised, for over 20 years she has made her goals, I suggested maybe she should start setting them higher, but the real reason she is surprised is that she forgets about the goal and just focuses all of her attention on LC&#8217;s standing for Lives Changed. God has given her an amazing gift. I have seen her many times suggest a plan that is less financially profitable for her but better for her client. LC&#8217;s are what drives her. Most of the meeting we discussed how to find the deeper purpose in what we do as a Financial Planning company. </p>
<p>“Lives Changed” should be at the top of our 2010 vision. We should always start with ourselves. God wants us to change every day to be more like Him. I just finished writing a book about how God can use our willingness to change can be the very thing that can make our marriages thrive. You can read more at www.TheAuthorOfMarriage.com. </p>
<p>If our lives are changing by the transforming work of God in our lives, then our impact to change others lives for the good will be more effective. So as you work each day this year, work as unto the Lord, consider each person you have the privilege of meeting with and ask God to use you to have a positive changing affect on them.</p>
<p>My 2010 Vision includes the following verses.</p>
<p>1 Corinthians 9:24<br />
Do you not know that in a race all the runners run, but only one gets the prize? Run in such a way as to get the prize. </p>
<p>Philippians 3:12<br />
[ Pressing on Toward the Goal ] Not that I have already obtained all this, or have already been made perfect, but I press on to take hold of that for which Christ Jesus took hold of me. </p>
<p>Ask God to give you 2010 vision this year. It is your choice to believe that He has given you this vision and believe that He can bring it to pass. Press on toward the mark of the high calling and with that in mind set your personal marks and run the race as if to win. Visualize the finish line and run like you haven&#8217;t run before and most importantly “if you enjoy the run, you have already won.“ &#8211; James Price</p>
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		<title>Dorthy and the Tin Man</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Nov 2009 14:55:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>James R. Price</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>The other day my wife said we had been invited to a Halloween party. I have never been a fan of Halloween for lots of reasons, one of which is the fact that I am an introvert. I do not generally like groups, crowds or parties. Some of you who know me may be a [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The other day my wife said we had been invited to a Halloween party. I have never been a fan of Halloween for lots of reasons, one of which is the fact that I am an introvert. I do not generally like groups, crowds or parties. Some of you who know me may be a little surprised and say that you do not think I am an introvert. However, I have always defined an introvert as someone who re-energizes by being alone or with one or two close friends. Even though I have experienced many changes over the years and have been know to speak in front of large groups, I still look forward to some refreshing time alone, before my next group interaction. Anyhow, God has used my wife over the years to change me in many ways. It is by watching her and by gentle prodding of the Holy Spirit that I have become an extrovert by appearance but still an introvert at heart. God impressed on me years ago that my desire to minister to others would not be well served by my focus on so few people. I was allowing my personal preference to affect how many people I would be able to minister to. </p>
<p>So this year when my wife said we were going to a party with lots of people we didn&#8217;t know, In an uncharacteristic form I said “Ok!&#8221; And I started thinking about how we would dress. This would be the first time, that we would go all out. After thinking about it for a while, I decided I would be Tin Man and she could be Dorthy. I have always enjoyed finding more ways to use duct tape and so I made my outfit with 2 rolls of duct tape, attached in overlapping form to a par of jeans and long sleeve shirt. I then took a funnel and wrapped it in duct tape and did the same for some old shoes. The outfit turned out really great and so did the evening. We got to spend some time at that party in ministry conversation with a young couple that had been dating for a while and contemplating marriage. This conversation was God&#8217;s message to me that all I need to do is show up and He would provide the ministry opportunities. By the way, I have found that I can be very energized in a group setting if I get the opportunity to have some meaningful ministry focused conversation with someone else in the group. In past years I would have missed out on this type of ministry, simply because I call myself an introvert. </p>
<p>I am pleased to say that Dorthy has given me a new heart. I have become much more like her in the last 16 years. God sent her to me and it is because of her that others have been helped, encouraged and ministered to. God knew what I needed when he brought her into my life. I am so much better of a man and minister than I ever would have been with out her. </p>
<p>It is so easy for us to reject the ways of others and to allow our predefined identity to keep us from what God wants. He wants to use us and there is no room for the excuses of the introvert. Its OK if you are an introvert. This only means that you will always be energized and refreshed by solitude or quality time with a few special people. But its not OK to use this as a defense against what God has called all of us to do and that is to GO into all the world, first to the party in your neighborhood and then to the rest of the world. He wants us to tell everyone we see and meet that He is God and that He loves us and understands us, because He is our Creator. </p>
<p>Just in case you extroverts think your going to get away so easily, let me say that you can sometimes focus a little too much on the numbers of people you talk to at the party and not enough on the quality of conversation. The job God calls us to every where, every day is to look for opportunities to plant seeds that will grow into a desire to know God better. Every conversation does not need to include a full salvation plan, but there should be seeds planted.</p>
<p>Now back to the topic of Dorthy and the Tin Man, I am sure I am not alone when I say that it really takes a conscious effort to use the new heart we have been given and to pursue the understanding of our Dorthy. It is natural to want to stay the way we are and to see the differences as negative. We have to really work at seeing the differences as God&#8217;s design for unity. It seems to often cause the opposite of unity, but that is because we resist the change. We like who we are and we fight to stay that way. </p>
<p>I used to like going to the same place for vacation, the same restaurant or even like to sit in the same place at church. But God gave me a wife that does not like to go to the same places. We have had some of both over the years, but I have to say that there are so many things I have experienced that I never would have, if not for my wife. I am so thankful now looking back, so much so that I may have completely transformed in that area of my life, because of my wife. We often think that we are giving something up when we consider others before ourselves, but in reality life is more fulfilling when we open our hearts and allow God to use our spouses to change us. </p>
<p>If God wanted us to define ourselves and then stay that way then why does it seem that almost every married couple I know is completely opposite in personality. Why do you think we are attracted to opposite personalities if we are so happy with who we are. And why is it that once we are married to that opposite personality, we try so hard to change them. The attraction is by God&#8217;s design and change is the purpose, however, fights occur when we focus on changing the other instead of truly falling in love and desiring to be changed ourselves. It is true love that wants to imitate or become like the other. </p>
<p>So many books and studies have been done that focus on defining our differences and I believe they are very helpful to a point. If it helps us to understand how to love the other better, then the goal is accomplished. But if it becomes a defining and immovable structure of who you are then, you have missed the point. I have also seen these books do the opposite of what they were intended for. Instead of being helpful for understanding our spouses better I have seen them used to create a sort of measuring stick of our own self centered desires. I have seen some use it as a way of keeping a record of wrongs of their spouse. </p>
<p>My challenge to you is to embrace the differences, step out of your comfort zone, God wants to use you today.</p>
<p>Tin Man could have never survived with out Dorthy. She helped him find his heart. Are you helping your spouse find theirs?</p>
<p>Pictures of Dorthy and Tin Man may be seen on my facebook page. </p>
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		<title>Talking Like a Foolish Woman</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Sep 2009 16:27:53 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>James R. Price</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Before you get upset with me about my title, I want to explain. It&#8217;s directly taken from Job 2:10.</p>
<p>Job 2:10 He replied, &#8220;You are talking like a foolish woman. Shall we accept good from God, and not trouble?&#8221;
In all this, Job did not sin in what he said.</p>
<p>It just so happens that in this story [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="font-family:'Times New Roman', Times, serif;font-size:40pt;color:#008CE9;font-style:normal;font-weight:normal;">B</span><span style="font-size:10pt;color:black;"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;">efore you get upset with me about my title, I want to explain. It&#8217;s directly taken from Job 2:10.</p>
<p><strong><em>Job 2:10</em></strong><em> He replied, &#8220;You are </em><strong><em>talking like a foolish woman</em></strong><em>. Shall we accept good from God, and not trouble?&#8221;</em><em><br />
</em><em>In all this, Job did not sin in what he said.</em></p>
<p>It just so happens that in this story the woman was the one who was not trusting God. This does not mean that men don&#8217;t have this problem as well, the point is that if we take our eyes off Jesus for even a second and doubt His goodness, then we are foolish.</p>
<p>It is foolish to not accept the bad as well as the good in our lives. Even though we don&#8217;t like to think about the pain of the bad stuff that happens to us, it is usually later that we realize all that God taught us during that time.  It is hard to think about the losses and still keep a positive attitude. You see we think we know what we need. Many of us have merged the lines between need and want. We really do not trust that God will provide. We can do all the right things and still not get what we want. Although I am writing about marriage I think that sometimes we need to go back to the basics and allow ourselves to be parented again. So with that in mind I want to share with you something that we learned while taking parenting classes about 14 years ago. We had been married for about a year and had decided that we wanted to be foster parents. We were expecting our first child and were taking classes provided by the foster care system.</p>
<p>One of the most valuable lessons we learned in the course was to identify the needs of the child. These needs were described as follows. The child needs or has a right to a roof over their head, food, basic clothing, privacy and a place to sleep. Everything else is a privilege and can be taken away at any time.</p>
<p>It is foolish to expect to have all that we want. God knows that will not satisfy us. True satisfaction comes from investing inward. Investing inward is being willing to take the time to read, It is taking the time to discuss our hearts with our spouses without any blame. Investing inwardly often requires sacrifice but the rewards are more precious than silver. The only investment that will always have a good return is the investment in relationships. The most solid of these investments is our relationship with God and second with our spouse.</p>
<p>I really don’t like “what ifs”, especially when they seem to be focused on the worst possible outcome. I suppose this is a personality trait, but I also believe that we are called to think on “whatever is lovely”</p>
<p><strong><em>Philippians 4:8 </em></strong><em>Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things.</em></p>
<p>However, it is sometimes helpful for the purpose of inward investments, contentment, joy or happiness, to consider the value of life based on a “what if” question.</p>
<p>So what if you were to wake up tomorrow in a house filling with smoke. The first thing you think about is your family. You rush to get them all out of the house and are relieved that everyone is ok. Your house burns to the ground with your cars in the garage and you later hear that insurance will not cover the loss due to some clause you were unaware of. While sitting at a restaurant with your family trying to figure out what to do next, You get a phone call from your boss explaining that the economy has taken its toll on his business and he needs to let you go. You start to beg for your job but you get interrupted by gasps from other customers who are now gathering around a television. The reporter says we have been attacked again in at least ten major cities. The reporter trys to maintain composure but fails as he says, “The stock market is crashing like never before, Its over folks! Life as we know it is over”. What if this was to happen to you? Would your value system change? What would be important to you then? The reason I wanted to take this emotional journey with you is for you to consider how you invest your time. What did you spend your money on last month? Did you spend it on things that can be lost in the fire?</p>
<p>My desire here is to help you to prepare for the bad, be ready to weather the storm, but to focus on the good and all the blessings. As the old song goes “Count your blessings, name them one by one”. Try it. I mean now. Stop reading for a moment and name your blessings out loud. …….. Do you feel better? If you don’t then I have not done a very good job of helping you to understand what your needs are. Or maybe you should start over and read this again. And take time to look up the verses I have mentioned. Read!</span></span></p>
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